Why Every Writer Needs a Wingmate (and Maybe a Bingo Card)

Writing is often romanticised as a solitary craft – just you, your keyboard, an ever-cooling cuppa… and maybe a keyboard-tramping cat. But the truth? Most writers do better with backup.

I know – I’ve been there. But then I found my writing wingmate. And honestly? I wouldn’t be where I am today without them.

A wingmate isn’t just a critique partner – they become a sounding board, a cheerleader, and sometimes your reality check all in one. Mine has helped me spot what I couldn’t, celebrate the wins, and keep going when doubt crept in. In fact, they’re the reason I’m doing this job at all.

One of the best examples? My wingmate once told me I’d missed a golden opportunity for comedy in a first draft. I added in a chapter – and that chapter became my favourite in the entire book.

Here’s why a writing wingmate is worth their weight in red pens:

1. You Catch More With Two Brains Than One

You know that sentence you’ve read 28 times but still can’t tell if it makes sense? A partner sees it immediately. Even the most careful writers miss their own quirks, but others don’t – especially the repeated words, saggy paragraphs, or plot holes we swear weren’t there yesterday. Two perspectives are always better than one.

2. Keep You Accountable Without Pressure

Writing with others gives you deadlines – gentle, human ones. Not ones you set yourself when you’re arguing with your protagonist in your head at 1am. When you know someone is waiting to read your work, it often becomes easier to finish the draft, send the chapter, or finally start revising.

3. Feedback Makes You Better… and Makes Your Work Better

Critique (the helpful kind) gives you perspective. You learn not only what to improve, but what’s already working. Often, writers underestimate their strongest qualities until someone points them out. A good wingmate doesn’t just point out problems – they guide you toward solutions and highlight what’s already strong. That kind of feedback is invaluable.

4. Revision Becomes a Game Instead of a Grind

Editing doesn’t have to feel like slogging through mud. When you make it playful – like using Manuscript Bingo – revision can become something you actually look forward to. And when you combine tools like this with the energy of a partner or group, the process becomes playful, productive, and even kind of addictive.

5. Writing Feels Less Lonely

At the heart of it all, a wingmate gives you connection. Someone who understands the highs, the doubts, the 3am imposter syndrome. And sometimes, that connection is what keeps you going.

So, if you get the opportunity to get your own writing wingmate – I highly recommend it!

Ready to Level Up Your Edits?

If you’re looking for a fresh way to make revision easier (and a little more fun), grab your free Manuscript Bingo sheet. Use it solo or share it with a wingmate or writing group – because writing is better when we do it together.

Happy writing, and even happier editing.